It seems like common sense that a Guardian ad Litem (GAL) is held legally accountable for their actions, especially those that harm or endanger the child they are supposed to be representing. Sadly, this is rarely the case.
In my case, the Guardian ad Litem (GAL) has not only been biased but blatantly ignored the safety of my children. The GAL refused to gather information (police reports, doctor reports, home visits, etc) , refused to question witnesses, ignored statements by the children and has come up with “evidence” based on her own ignorant conclusions. In a stunning case of logic, my GAL has declared that since my abusive ex-husband has a “house, a job, and a car” that he is no threat to me! My GAL’s reports are often late, have inaccuracies in them and at times she has simply failed to gather needed information (and went to court without it, even testifying before a judge). That this is the person supposed to represent my children’s best interests is simply unacceptable.
I can share so many horror stories about my Guardian ad Litem… I have reverted to survival tactics I used with my abusive ex-husband now with the GAL. I keep silent. I avoid eye contact. I try to go unnoticed. I put a positive spin on even the worst situation. And I cry unheard tears.
The Guardian ad Litem seems to have unlimited power and expertise.
In my case, the GAL has gone way beyond her position…she seems to always have the answer (must be psychic!) even if she has not gathered any information or is not knowledgeable about a subject. My GAL has advocated for my abusive ex husband by offering him legal advise, granting him priveleges I am denied, and making excuses for his bad behavior (or telling me that my children are lying or exagerating when their reports about their father are unfavorable to her cause).
The word of the Guardian ad Litem is taken as truth in court. Their actions and conclusions are rarely, if ever questioned or assessed for accuracy. In case when parents have been stripped of their legal rights, or forced to share legal rights with an abuser, it is nearly impossible to get a second opinion. A second opinion will usually be viewed with scorn and skepticism. Dr. Gardner, the inventor of Parental Alienation Syndrome, has boldy delcared that mothers manipulate psychologists and other professionals to support them–and such people should not be believed. It is nearly impossible to request a new GAL, and there may be repercussions for doing so. Parents are forced into silence because in speaking out they face retribution or worse, losing custody of their children.
Here we can anonymously speak out…tell our stories…in hopes someone will listen, and join us in fighting for change in the family court system, and in fighting for better lives for our children.
I encourage you, leave your story in the comments section below. Or if you have a link or resource to help fight against family court injustice, leave it below. We can’t give up–our children’s lives are at risk.
Evanlee, 2009.
This was forwarded to me…
GAL/Minor’s counsel does not have immunity for actions that cause child harm
January 18, 2006
Maryland Court of Appeals Fox v. Wills
http://www.unitedforjustice. com/Mdcourtappeals.htm
In a precedent setting opinion, the Maryland Court of Appeals ruled that counsel appointed on behalf of a minor is not an arm of the court. He or she has a duty to the child and does not have immunity from tort liability for actions that cause harm to the child.
The attorney, Vincent Wills, was appointed by the court to represent a young girl, K., as a guardian ad litem (GAL) during her parents’ divorce. Following judgment in the divorce case, Elizabeth Ritter, the child’s mother, filed a suit on her daughter’s behalf charging Wills with legal malpractice. It was alleged that Wills abdicated his responsibilities as counsel for the child, that he did not act in accordance with K.’s best interests, and that he was in fact an advocate for the child’s father who was suspected of sexually abusing Katherine. The complaint further alleged that Wills ignored the trial court’s orders in that he failed to ensure that the child’s father was supervised during visitation, that he failed to ensure that Katherine was placed in a car seat when transported during visitations, that he failed to address the issue of the father’s inappropriate touching of Katherine, and that he failed to address the numerous reports of the father’s inappropriate exhibitions of anger in front of Katherine. The complaint also alleged that Wills deliberately prevented evidence of child sexual abuse from coming before the court by suppressing and distorting the report of a psychological expert appointed by the court to evaluate the claims of abuse. The report had advised against unsupervised visitation between the child and her father. Wills filed a motion to dismiss the complaint, arguing that, because of his position as counsel for the child under Maryland Family Law Article § 1-202, he was functioning on behalf of and for the benefit of the court and was thus entitled to “absolute quasi-judicial immunity.” Alternatively, Wills argued that, even if he were not entitled to “absolute quasi-judicial immunity,” he was entitled to “qualified immunity,” and that the allegations of the complaint were insufficient to show the malice needed to overcome qualified immunity. The Circuit Court granted the motion to dismiss, stating “that there is clearly privilege here or immunity, whether it is qualified or quasi-judicial. ” The plaintiff appealed, and the Court of Special Appeals also affirmed. The Maryland Supreme Court reversed holding that an attorney appointed to represent a child in a divorce case is “is not by statute or rule rendered any more ‘an arm of the court’ than other Maryland attorneys.”
June 6, 2009 at 3:42 am
You have filed complaints against her license, correct?
July 14, 2009 at 10:09 pm
RJ- Unfortuneately if I file a complaint, I face retaliation. Judges will rarely appoint a new GAL, and complaints are rarely taken seriously.
National Association to Stop Guardian ad Litem Abuse, “Wards, instead of being protected by the system, are victimized by it, losing their freedom, property and their very lives, due to a lack of monitoring by the individual judges and court administrators, and further lack of oversight of the courts by state and federal legislatures….
Uncaring/corrupt judges misuse the law and engage in blatant due process, civil/human rights violations…”
http://www.stopguardianabuse.org/
Children of divorce: Who speaks for them?
by Jim Hight (An article examining the struggles of divorcing families, the effects on children and complaints against GALs): http://www.northcoastjournal.com/feb97/2-97.cvrstry.html
Miscarriage of Justice: “This is the true story of how the personal agenda of one Guardian Ad Litem kept three small children in a neglectful and abusive environment for nearly six months, and the struggle of their father to bring them home and keep them there despite a corrupt system committed to forcing them back under the abusive “care” of their biological mother despite her escalating abuse of the children.”
http://www.dragonempire.ws/default.asp?Page=MiscarriageOfJustice.htm
Guardia ad Chargem: “Appointed by a judge to act in a child’s best interest, some lawyers can also help themselves by billing a small fortune..” By Bob Whitby
http://batteredmotherscustodyabuse.wordpress.com/2009/07/11/h5a-hrefhttpjustice4motherswordpresscom20090304guardianadchargemguardian-adchargemah5blockquotepfiled-hrefhttpenwordpresscomtagcorruptlawyerscorrupt-lawyersa-hrefhttpenwordpresscomtagcustodyevaluators/
July 24, 2009 at 5:55 am
I know of a woman who has shared her story with me who was a victim of dv whose gal said this:
If she would have done what xxxxx wanted her to do he would have never hit her. I have seen the reports and that is in there. This GAl also questioned the child of their marriage at length (15+ minutes) and after all of that the GAL said that the mother was discussing the alleged abuse by the dad with the child too much and that the mother was just as abusive as dad. How was mom abusive? Because she cried when dad hit her. This part was not in report it was in testimony – the GAL said that the mother was emotionally abusive to child – she was making the child choose by being upset about abuse.
The woman plans to take action when the child is old enough to not worry about custody chage.
September 6, 2009 at 8:17 pm
Another horrific story of GAL abuse and Family Court Corruption…
CLAUDINE DOMBROWSKI CASE, Shawnee County, Kansas. Claudine lost custody of her baby daughter Rikki to Hal Richardson, the man abused her. Judge James P. Buchele refused to permit adequate testimony at trial, shortening it to benefit his docket, and also ordered Claudine to move back to Topeka to live near Richardson, for the sake of their “co-parenting.” Richardson is a man with multiple criminal convictions for violent behavior (Battery, Attempted Battery, Battery of a Law Enforcement Officer, Obstruction of Legal Process, Possession of Marijuana and violation of Open Container law), a man who has beaten and raped Claudine multiple times before and after her divorce from him, a man who has threatened to kill her and her child.
Worse, Judge Buchele also ordered Claudine not to call the police any more without the permission of her case manager.
When Judge James Buchele retired, Judge Richard D. Andersonaffirmed Buchele’s previous orders, including the illegal prohibition on Claudine’s being able to call the police.
Guardian ad litem Scott McKenzie deserves a substantial portion of the credit for this travesty. I ask, how in hell can this happen in the United States of America?
http://angelzfury.blogspot.com/2009_09_01_archive
This makes me so sick!
September 17, 2009 at 5:20 am
I have had custody of my son for 13 years. My son’s father was granted custody only because the gurardain at litem sided with my son’s father who I was never married to. He has has narcissitic personality disorder, alcholism, and is mentally abusive. I had a great case and lawyer in court, but the judge still went with GAL decison. Please help me to get my son back. I live in Virgina and I need all the information I can get. I am willing to take this matter to the Supreme Court. There was No basis for for given him custody other than I had moved 2 times in one year-prior to that I had lived in the same place for almost 9. PLEASE HELP
September 22, 2009 at 11:17 pm
Laurinda… I can’t offer professional or legal advise. I can only give you a bit of what I have learned, and its up to you to decide what works best.
Some ideas…
Seek legal advise from a legal clinic or advocate at a battered women’s shelter
Document everything. Write down conversations with the GAL and the ex, include date and time.
If your ex is mentally ill, is there proof or records? I would also document his behavior. Go through your papers and belongings and see if there is anything that can prove your case.
You may need some support with you–friend, family, advocate, clergy, etc–but look at the court papers and what reasoning (or lack of!) they used to side with the ex. Get a second opinion on this. You will need to seek legal advice or counsel on how to refute this, and to see if there are other legal avenues. You may even want to look into cases with a similiar history, and find a way to appeal.
Take care of yourself, and seek support. Have hope… It’s not easy, I know. But we have to stay strong & keep fighting for our kids. You are not alone in this.
I am praying for you and wish you all the best.
Evanlee
Rights for Mothers: http://www.blogcatalog.com/blog/rights-for-mothers
Provides support, information, and resources to noncustodial mothers and those who have been battered by the court system.
Virginia Sexual and Domestic Violence Action Alliance: http://www.vadv.org
To ensure confidentiality please call the Family Violence & Sexual Assault Hotline at 800.838.8238 (V/TTY).
Resources, Legal Options, Education, and Support
Women and Mother’s Resource Center: http://mothersrights.tripod.com/
Includes info on Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and Custody, Links and Resources/Legal Links, Information, and Support
Mothers of Lost Children:
http://www.mothers-of-lost-children.com
Organization for women who have lost custody of their children as a result of making child abuse allegations.
I read the MOLC website and for the first time, really felt someone else understood my story–this site was very helpful for me
October 20, 2009 at 6:04 pm
I am so sorry to hear what you and your children went through. I will keep you in my prayers.
I think one of the hardest things about family court injustice is that you are punished for trying to protect your children–and then you have to watch as they suffer. You have to be silent, even knowing they are not safe, and pretend to look the other way even though you want to fight for them. And when its over, you have to have the strength to keep going…and parent children who are traumatized, mistrustful and often permanently damaged.
My heart goes out to you <3
Evanlee